Thursday, December 19, 2013

Christmas Message 2013


Christmas Greetings 2013!

We enjoy receiving annual update letters this time of year so we decided to give it a try ourselves.  Please do not expect any Pulitzer-prized documentary but hopefully you will enjoy our ramblings which are presented not in any particular order.


The Tracey Family enjoys its annual tradition of gathering-of-the-troops for a family reunion and in doing such we hold these gala events across the country in an effort to visit sights where a family member lives. As spread-out as we are, our annual treks have taken us (at least once) to Toledo, OH; Sacramento, CA; Colorado Springs, CO; Disney World, Ft. Lauderdale, FL; and San Antonio, TX.  This year (2013) however, we deviated from this tradition slightly so we could attend Mom Tracey’s 90th Birthday / Family Reunion, in Connecticut.  The “family reunion” in this instance was all seven of MomT’s children and as many of her relatives/grandchildren/friends that could attend. Some traveled as far away as Point Lay, Alaska, (look it up on a map, you will be impressed), and as near as already there (zero travel). In addition to MomT celebrating 90 years, what was super-special about this event was that this was the first time in too-many decades that all of the seven siblings (Traceski Tribe) were in the same place at the same time – and we did not kill one another (ha)!  We hope that you enjoy this photo of what the seven of us looked like approximately 60 years ago.  We thought that this was a better picture than one showing what we all look like today - oldie but goodie vs. old but not as good!



Another significant event this year was MSgt Sandra K. Mitchell’s retirement from the USAF as a Signals Intelligence Analyst Training Manager for the Air Force Intelligence, Surveillance, Reconnaissance Agency at Lackland AFB, TX, (whew). After 21.5 years her chance to stay at home with her four kids finally arrived - this made us very excited for Sandy and her family.  Sandy offered us the opportunity to participate in her retirement ceremony and she asked if I would wear my “old” USAF uniform. I told her that I didn’t have my old uniform; therefore I was not going to wear one to her retirement. Having said that, Patty and I felt like kids as we secretly drove to Travis AFB to be fitted in a new uniform for me. On the morning of her retirement, we had great pleasure surprising Sandy with me in full uniform! 

 Unfortunately life is not always kind or predictable.  The Bible tells us that in our lives we will have tribulations: “These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)  For Patty and I this was our first year without her mom (Doris) and also without a great friend and Air Force buddy, Mike Weibel.  Doris lived to the ripe age of 94 years, which is a grand feat itself.  Mike, however, left this world way too soon, way too young and he, like Doris, left voids in our lives.  Both of their memories remain with us and are part of our daily being!

Many of you know that Patty and I moved to Sacramento over seven years ago to care for her mom after her dad passed away. Now, following the passing of Doris, we are planning to move back to Florida early next year (2014). God willing, our new residence will be in the Villages, FL, sometimes referred to as “Disneyland for Adults”, and any of you that follow Patty’s Facebook postings know all you need to know about “The Villages”. We have a few obstacles to overcome in the meantime so stay tuned for further updates!

 OK, that’s enough for now and we hope that you enjoyed reading this as much as we enjoyed putting it all together.  We’ll leave you with our Red Sox self-portrait in recognition of the BOSOX winning the 2013 World Series.


 


In closing we wish you a

 
Merry Christmas

 
 and a happy, healthy 2014!

 

 

 

 

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

The Homeless

Dedicated to my brother Jimmy


Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have dreams, hopes, or desires to work, prosper, and to live the American Dream!

"Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven...."(Matt 5:12)
 
Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have feelings, emotions, or opinions! 

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."
(Matt 5:4)
 
Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have a need to be recognized and want to be respected as individuals created by God!  They are not faceless, soul-less anomalies.

"Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy." (Matt 5:7)

Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have a love for others, love for you & I, and a yearning to be loved in return! 

"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." (Matt 5:9)
 
 Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have feelings of self-worth and a passion to be viewed as productive members of society!

"Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth." (Matt 5:5)

 Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have family, friends, a personal support system?
 
"Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled." (Matt 5:6)

Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not have faith in a caring God and a love for Christ Jesus and just because they are homeless does not mean that the Holy Spirit does not reside in their hearts!
 
"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God." (Matt 5:8)

Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do not believe in themselves!

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven." (Matt 5:3)
 
 Just because they are homeless does not mean that they do have faith in you and I with a heart of thanksgiving for our caring generosity, prayers, and love for them as our brothers and sisters!

“Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. (Matt 5:11)

Just because they are homeless does not mean that they want your pity, money or material donations although they humble themselves as temporary recipients of our generosity and our concern for their immediate welfare!

"Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven." (Matt 5:10)



In retrospect, perhaps the only difference between "them" and "us" is a place called home! 


Finally, in closing, remember that just because they are homeless does not mean that they will never have a home because Jesus tells us all that...



"My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?"
(John 14:2)
 
 


Monday, October 21, 2013

Life


The phrase should not be "Look where my life has taken me" but rather the phrase should be "Look where I have taken my life" because your life does not control or drive you; On the contrary, you control and drive your life.

Think about this: There will be life without you, but without you, you will have no life!

The term LIFE as addressed here is a non-entity.  It has no force or power to control your actions or decisions.  You are your life!   

Your life is the story about you, your history book if you will, and it contains no tomorrows, only yesterdays and moments ago.  Your future, a breath away from you now, has not been written yet, except in the mind of God. 

You can plan what you want out of your life but your life cannot plan that for you!  

If you are not happy with your life, unfortunately you cannot go back and change the story, but you can change your life story going forward.  Just remember that history tends to repeat itself which is why the wise person learns from past mistakes and grows on the positive aspects.

Now, if all this sounds like psycho-babble it is because it is psycho-babble and if you disagree and want to spend any time refuting what was written above, I have one bit of advice for  you ...


Get a life!



 

Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.
(James 4:14 NIV)
 
 
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Friday, August 23, 2013

CHOICES


Choose God over Everything;
Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.

Choose Jesus over Satan;
Matthew 4:10 Jesus said to him, "Away from me, Satan! For it is written: 'Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.'"

Choose Salvation over Damnation;
Hebrews 9:28 ...so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many; and He will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for Him.

Choose Life over Death;
1 Job 5:12 Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.

Choose Forgiveness over Condemnation;
Ephesians 1:7 In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His Grace....

Choose Repentance over Sin;
Matt 3:2 "Repent of your sins and turn to God, for the Kingdom of Heaven is near."

Choose Grace over Works;
Ephesians 2:8 God saved you by His grace when you believed. And you can't take credit for this; it is a gift from God.

Choose Heaven over Earth;
Micah 1:3 Look! The LORD is coming! He leaves His throne in Heaven and tramples the heights of the earth.

Choose Love over Hate;
Romans 13:10 Love does no wrong to others, so love fulfills the requirements of God's law.

Choose Light over Dark;
John 8:12 Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, “I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won't have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.”

Choose Heaven over Hell;
2 Corinthians 5:1 For we know that when this earthly tent we live in is taken down (that is, when we die and leave this earthly body), we will have a house in heaven, an eternal body made for us by God himself and not by human hands.

Choose Peace over Troubles;
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Choose Faith over Hopelessness;
Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

Choose Truth over Falsehoods;
John 14:6 Jesus told him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.

Choose Eternal Gifts over Temporary Treasures;
1 Peter 1:4 ...and we have a priceless inheritance--an inheritance that is kept in Heaven for you, pure and undefiled, beyond the reach of change and decay.

Choose God's Word over the Lies of the World;
1 John 2:14 I have written to you who are God's children because you know the Father. I have written to you who are mature in the faith because you know Christ, who existed from the beginning. I have written to you who are young in the faith because you are strong. God's word lives in your hearts, and you have won your battle with the evil one.



"You can make this choice by loving the LORD your God, obeying Him, and committing yourself firmly to Him. This is the key to your life. And if you love and obey the LORD, you will live long in the land the LORD swore to give your ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob." 
(Deuteronomy 30:20)
 
 
 
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Friday, June 21, 2013

Remember this ...

 
 
The conversation goes something like this:

"Where did you put it"?

"I put it in a place that I would not forget where it is."

"Then where is it?"

"I forgot!"


I must remember to stop putting things in places where I tell myself that "I will remember where they are" when I need to find them again because I never can return right to their hiding place. 
 
Of course, it should go without saying that if I can remember to tell myself not to put things in places where I tell myself that "I will remember where they are" then consequently I would have remembered where I put those things in the first place!
 
 
 
 
 
And I will forgive their wickedness, and I will never again remember their sins." Heb 8:12
 
 
 
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Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Cheap Gas

 
Caution: The names have not been changed to expose the innocence of a young lady!


My son Brian was driving down the road and as he approached a gas station his 13 year old daughter Courtney asked...

"Daddy, why don't you buy that gas that is selling for .99 cents instead of paying for the more expensive gas at $3.52?"




 
 
 
 
"Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."  (Mark 10:15)
 



Tuesday, March 5, 2013

How Much?

My aim here is to have a little fun with this post so please do not take me seriously otherwise you might think that I am somewhat judgemental and critical of others (and of myself) and I certainly do not want you to come to that conclusion because I love you all and I also thank you all for following my writings albeit few and far between. 

Correction:  I love you very much and I also thank you very much! 

No, that feels inadequate!  I love you very, very much and I also thank you very, very much! 

Let's try this again.   I love you very, very, very much and I also thank you very, very, very much!

One more time?  I think not!

The words "I love you" and "I thank you" are very powerful ones, full of emotion, gratitude, humbleness and deep feelings.  One would think that uttering those words alone would be a sufficient expression for any occasion, especially if spoken from the heart with sincerity.  But how often have others, and perhaps yourself, (I have) modified those three words by appending the word "very" once, twice or any number of times?

I know that you know what I mean!

To me, all this begs the question - How much is very much, hence, how much more is very, very much more?  Can "very" be measured?  Does it hold some intrinsic value or weight of any substantive value?  Does repeating "very" add additional sincerity to the original expression of love or thanks?  Is there an equivalent cash value or is there more sacrificial pain attached to each additional "very" expressed?  Conversely, if one does not plaster a slew of "very's" will the recipient be offended, or feel slighted and perhaps think less of you for "copping-out"? 

Then, if we add a "so" to the "very" we get a "so very much" which by some rule in nature has to add a value to the "nth" power that just cannot be measured by any means, especially the more "so's" and the more "very's" we append!  It's exhausting just thinking about the gravity of all this, so very exhausting!  Where does it ever end - is there limit to the number of "very's" and "so's"? 

So why do we do it?  If it makes no difference, if there is no additional merit given or earned, then why do we do it and why does the object of our praise appreciate hearing it?

Do you know why we do this?

I do not know either but it's been a thought of mine over many years, so now I offer you the opportunity to ponder it for as many years as well...and if you had never questioned this before you will now every time you hear those "very's" spoken, or when you utter them yourself.  You know how this works - you won't be able to escape it.  So next time when it happens to you, when you subconsciously ask yourself "...and how much is so very much...", just laugh a little bit, or laugh very, very, very much!

However, there is one truth that I know well, that is so very well, (et cetera ad nauseum), which is.....








God loves us so very, very, very much!
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Sunday, January 6, 2013

Book of Job

 
There once was a man named Job who lived in the land of Uz. He was blameless - a man of complete integrity. He feared God and stayed away from evil.  
(Job 1.1 NLT)


Wow, can you imagine living a blameless life with complete integrity, always fearing God, and staying away from evil?  At times I feel that I blow that right after I wake-up some mornings, but certainly as my days proceed I somehow get distracted from the Lord and I begin to sin in new ways.  What is even more interesting about Job is that he was not hidden away in some secluded hole, like a monk of some order, chanting rituals, eating meager scraps of food and donning plain garbs.  No, quite the opposite!   Job was described as "... owning 7,000 sheep, 3,000 camels, 500 teams of oxen, and 500 female donkeys, with many servants. He was, in fact, the richest person in that entire area."  In today's world Job could be compared to a Donald Trump or perhaps a Bill Gates business-success type, but at least with Job he apparently did not sell his soul in exchange for monetary success.

To me, what makes Job even more interesting of a dude, especially concerning his relationship with the Lord, is that by all estimates, Job lived long before there were any established religions, even secular ones it may seem.  Job lived before the Israelites were selected by God as the chosen ones, even before God announced: "For Abraham will certainly become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth will be blessed through him." (Gen 18:18)  In fact, the Book of Job is considered by many scholars as being the oldest book in the Bible, which means that everything that Job knew or thought about God was either passed on to him through stories originating from the day of Adam and Eve or else Job intuitively realized that there was a greater power than he.  And Job was not the only one in his social network to think this way, in fact, "Job's sons would take turns preparing feasts in their homes, and they would also invite their three sisters to celebrate with them.  When these celebrations ended—sometimes after several days—Job would purify his children. He would get up early in the morning and offer a burnt offering for each of them. For Job said to himself, "Perhaps my children have sinned and have cursed God in their hearts." This was Job's regular practice."  (Job 1:4-5)  So Job was not alone with his close relationship with God but again he was the only one recognized by God as being: "blameless - a man of complete integrity. He feared God and stayed away from evil."

So where are we going to go with this? 

In John 16:33 (ESV) we read "I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world."  We, as Christians will experience tribulations in our lives but we certainly do not expect tribulation to the magnitude that Job experienced.  Within one hours time, Job lost all of his children, his homes and properties, his cattle and all other livestock, his farmhands, shepherds and servants.  Job lost everything that was his except for himself and his wife.  Yet, even after all of this, Job did not sin by blaming God! (Job 1:22 NIV)

Why do bad things happen to good people?

John 16:33 (above) partially addresses that question but definitely not completely or in a satisfactory manner for most of us.  Certainly in Job's situation, God allowed the pain and suffering that Satan imposed upon Job, and it did not stop there as Satan next "...struck Job with terrible boils from head to foot..." (Job 2:7) after which "... Job scraped his skin with a piece of broken pottery as he sat among the ashes." (Job 2:8) And even with Job's wife urging him to curse God and die, Job replied, "Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?"

So in all this, Job said nothing wrong.  (Job 2:10).

There are so many lessons to be learned from the Book of Job and definitely the subject of trials and tribulations are discussions most addressed amongst the others.  However, I found that the teachings of "Judgement" and "Repentance" to be the over-riding themes in this story. 

As Christians were are commanded not to judge others:

"Do not judge others, and you will not be judged."  (Matt 7:1)

"Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven." (Luke 6:37)

"You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things."  (Rom 10:1)
 

"Since you judge others for doing these things, why do you think you can avoid God's judgment when you do the same things?"  (Rom 2:3)
 
(Telling myself not to judge others is like telling myself not to breathe - it's just comes that easy at times!)
 
In the Book of Job we find that Satan judged Job; Job's three friends came from afar to judge him; a fourth contributor (Elihu) judged Job; his wife cast her vote; and perhaps all of the townspeople and whatever friends and relatives of Job remained judged him too because none of them came to Job's rescue or to comfort him. 
 
Yet, through all this Job did not judge any of his accusers.
 
When we judge others, we put ourselves in the place of God - it is God's domain to judge and it is ours to be judged!  We know this from Job 42:7 where God expressed His anger to Job's friends,  "I am angry with you and your two friends, for you have not spoken accurately about me, as my servant Job has."  When we judge others we are not reflecting God's Truth.

As the Book of Job draws to its end, Job repents to the Lord for "...talking about things I knew nothing about, things far too wonderful for me ... I take back everything I said, and I sit in dust and ashes to show my repentance."

I reflect on how often I think that I know what God wants, or what His Plan is for me!  But as Job so eloquently stated, I'm ...talking about things I knew nothing about, things far too wonderful for me!  So I pray to do more listening (to God) and less presuming that I know what God wants for me!

And who does not like happy endings?  So the LORD blessed Job in the second half of his life even more than in the beginning. For now he had 14,000 sheep, 6,000 camels, 1,000 teams of oxen, and 1,000 female donkeys ...  He also gave Job seven more sons and three more daughters ... In all the land no women were as lovely as the daughters of Job ...  Job lived 140 years after that, living to see four generations of his children and grandchildren ... 

Then he died, an old man who had lived a long, full life.  (Job 42:12-7)

Peace comes from knowing God's Grace; that His love for us is beyond our comprehension.  So no matter how many tribulations we may face - even if we must endure what Job endured - just remember that we have a promise of eternal salvation through Christ Jesus (John 3:16), and with that everyday of our life should be considered to be "Great As Always"!

Lessons / Reflections from the Book of Job:

-  One can be rich with material wealth but still be a faithful servant of God; God allows adversity to serve His purposes; Keep all of our adversities in perspective because our time here is temporary; Give God praise in everything ... that means everything! Thank God for everything; Who is the intercessor in your family?  Grow in Faith!

- What defines friendship? Integrity - where is yours and how strong is it?  Do we ask "Why Me" when hardship befalls us? To serve His purpose, God permits bad things to happen to good people either through our actions (free will) or through His direct intervention; How do we, as Christians, respond to others' sufferings?   How strong is my Faith?  What does this life mean to me, to others, to God?

- How do I react when calamities befall me?  Do I blame God, do I blame others, do I blame myself?  How should a Christian approach / react to suffering?  Is suffering a challenge to our faith or is it an opportunity for faith-building?  What does Grace and Mercy mean to me?

- By our "good works" we are not saved.  What is our attitude when God provides "correction"?  Do we accept God's corrections as a positive element and a learning opportunity?

-  Friends in need need friendship.  Don't judge lest ye be judged.  Quite often, saying nothing says a lot!

- When you feel that the world is against you remember that God is with you!  Even in your misery, trust in God.  God may be using my suffering and pain for the benefit of others.  It is not always about me!

- Our rewards are not of this world.  Do not judge others. Those that judge us may represent the world's view of God whereas we must attempt to remain true to God's Word.

- We have an arbiter in Jesus!

- Nothing is hidden from God, He sees all!  Man sees outward appearances only whereas God sees what is in our hearts.  Man may grow in Wisdom over the years but God knows all things always.  Do we know how to relate to God's love for us? 

-  It may be OK to get angry but what we do with that anger is where sin may enter.  What should I do about my anger?  Perhaps I should grow and learn from it. Do you ever feel (like Job) where you are in a place that has no answers, no rationale, no support from friends, church, or community, and that you have lost faith in God's relationship with yourself?  Immature vs. mature anger - where should we be? 
 
 - Doubters are lost people, they are of the world constantly barraging Believers because they question the very existence of God, hence they mock Jesus.  If what the naysayers are true then what Hope is there for anyone?  Moments of weakness then moments of strength - our Faith decides which prevails.
 
- Although the World may appear to be against you, stay strong in your Faith of God.  Job prevailed against the "main-stream" media, so should we!   Do not apologize for something that you have not done wrong or when you are right. We are living in a fallen world (Spiritual Warfare).  As Christians we will face "dilemmas".  The wrong are being used to fight against the right.
 
- How can we rely on God when we think that we already have everything?  Change "How was your day" to "How was your day with God"?  Judging others is not only wrong, but your rationale for judging may be in error too.  Let God do the judging and we'll do the loving.  God has a plan - trust in God to fulfill His Plan.  When there is nothing left then all that is left is God.  Learn not to judge but to love.  Point fingers at yourself instead of pointing fingers at others.  It's one matter to react to what others may do but it's a different matter to judge them for it.
 
- Sin carries consequences.  Jesus died for our sins but we may still suffer the consequences of our sins.  When we judge others we are taking the place of God. 
 
- Why do we judge others?  Should I speak on behalf of God?  Should I put myself in God's place so I can judge someone?
 
- Wickedness is a lifestyle of sin.  God's judgement is reserved; held-off until after our death.  Corporate punishment is individual punishment.  How do you perceive your relationship with God?
 
- Look to God, not to man.  Man judges based upon earthly standards; God judges man based upon Heavenly treasures.  Wisdom is knowing that God is God and man is not! 
 
- Why do bad things happen to good people?  Be Christ-like by following Christ.  At every moment of the day am I following Jesus?  If you are not being tested perhaps it is because Satan already has you.  How much am I letting God control me versus letting Satan control me? 
 
- There but by the Grace of God go I.  Where would we turn if we felt that we could not turn to God?  Does God ever forsake us or do we forsake our Faith in God?
 
- Greater than knowing right from wrong is doing what is right.  Character is what you do when no one is looking at you.  We are all created equal by God.  Treat others as we want to be treated by God. 
 
- God gives all Wisdom.  God uses everyone as He deems for His purpose, perhaps each used differently from the others.  Rebut false teachings.
 
- When we petition God should we expect an answer?  God knows our wrongs before we repent of them.  It's God's Will and not according to man's expectations.  Should we question God's judgement?  Man's ways are not necessarily God's ways.  God's Will will be done.  God disciplines; man judges.  The goal of discipline is direction. The mark of true love is free will. 
 
- Does God ever need to be defended by us?  Who would be able to defend God?  God never takes His eyes off of us.  How do believers "fear" God?
 
- What do we really know when compared to God's knowledge.  As advanced we think we are in our knowledge, man still cannot make a single cell.  There is a reason for everything.  We know God through His Creation; Creation proves that there is a Creator.  If you are not in awe of God then why not?   The more we know the more we know what we don't know.
 
- Fear God for He is Awesome!  Only with God can we defeat sin and Satan.  Remember who God is and not what you want Him to be.  What is our relationship with God?  What should our relationship be with God?  God is greater than any "bad" that can happen to me.
 
- Repent of your sins and you will prosper.  Another reason not to judge others is that they may be right with God.  Love the sinner but not the sin.  I'd rather have Mercy than justice.
 
 
 
May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.  (Eph 3:19)
 
 
 
 
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